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I think a lot depends on the type of relationship. If my husband "cheated" on me, the set of circumstances would have to be very strange indeed. However, I've been cheated on before, but I've always had pre-existing concerns about the relationship ahead of time. » 1/24/14 4:44pm 1/24/14 4:44pm

Me, and people who score highly on the Adverse Childhood Experience scale (like me) tend to have issues like fibro or depression on a much higher scale than people who had "happy" childhoods. I'll try and dig up the link that's floating around today on that, but in the meantime here's the ACE info: » 1/22/14 3:55pm 1/22/14 3:55pm

Dragged myself to choir last night...

After getting road-raged into on Sunday, I've been feeling anxious and skittish about going anywhere that isn't "from the bedroom to the computer room, wearing jammies". I have to deal with an incommunicado insurance adjuster (the asshole who hit me, not mine, mine is awesome, yay Progressive), a rental car that has… » 1/22/14 1:50pm 1/22/14 1:50pm